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I’ve mentioned on numerous occasions the run-ins that I have with male library patrons. I was catching up with International Friend via skype the other day when I finally admitted something that I’ve never said out loud before.
Let’s back up for a moment and recap all the lovely qualities of the men who have recently asked me out: one had no front teeth; another didn’t ask me out until he had already told me that he’s unemployed, divorced with kids and diabetic with no health insurance; another is closer to my parents’ ago than mine–actually, all of them are way too old, which makes it all very creepy. The problem is, that I feel bad listing out their poor qualities like this. I make excuses for them, tell myself that I’m sure they’re lovely people, when what they actually are are gross old men who make work uncomfortable for me.
And here’s the thing that I feel like the biggest bitch admitting: I would never date someone who had to come to the library to use the internet.
I am all about breaking down the digital divide, helping people get online who can’t afford their own computer and internet connection, but I don’t want that in my own life. I confessed this to a friend who agreed “home internet access is a real indicator of socio-economic standing.” Putting it that way sounds so shallow and obnoxious, and I’m certainly not a rich lady, never will be, but opting out of the internet at home and using it exclusively at the public library is a whole nother thing, no?
So I put it to you, gentle reader, am I a snob? Is it snobby to put a moratorium on dating outside of your peer group, or is that something that everyone does anyway? I’ve never been such a highly pursued female, so I’ve never had to think about my deal-breakers in this way. If I met one of these guys at a neutral social event would I feel differently?
Someday I’ll write blogs that are less self-indulgent, I promise.